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User:whymercy (948726) Paid User
Pain is a weakness leaving the body
One can always be kind to people about whom one cares nothing.
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Does writing out and posting your feelings in a more or less public forum where many of your friends/associates can read them "enable" you to avoid dealing with these situations directly? That's the $1 billion question (Note the usage of billion - got to think bigger. I'd think bigger still but my mind is getting fried. Not enough sleep)...

You see, if someone reads your postings and KNOWS you they are (for good, evil or indifference) free to interpret what you write without the benefit of YOU there to assist them with facial expressions, tone, pitch, gesture or most importantly, any clarification. So - this can easily become a horrific pit of misunderstandings. This journal is not for "them".  It is for me.  It is a forum for me to post What, When, and How I please;  - and in the manner I see fit.  I make choices.  Truthfully I may not please everyone.  I often please no one.  But to be honest, that's not the purpose of this forum.  I lock most of these posts to a select few.  If you have the privilege of being able to read these, then consider yourself lucky that I trust you, rather than seeing fit to rip my feelings and thoughts apart in the belief that what I write has some bearing on "you".  Most likely (90% of the time) - it will NOT.  That is called PARANOIA and it will earn you a place OFF my friends list.  That does not mean we are not FRIENDS.  It just means I do not feel you should be privvy to my thoughts.  If you perceive that to be offensive, that's your choice. Your Problem.  . 

PS - I did say I was direct right?
So, before the games begin - I would enter a DISCLAIMER on this Live Journal of mine: If you question anything you read here and claim to know the author, you surely must know said individual well enough to actually open your mouth and ask for some level of clarification on what it is you think may be true. I give you similar respect and consideration, so return the favor in kind - at minimum...     






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Credits and Thanks to the following individuals for the work they have created for me: - Most of them are originals - do NOT take them and claim as your own or heaven forbid modify them, I didn't make them either - give credit to these wonderful makers and communities. ♥ PS: Don't bother trying to take them. They aren't for you. Hover credits are included.
Note: Friends-only banner on my Livejournal itself credited to [info]myschala
I have a beautiful background on my LiveJournal but I can't take credit/make any claims to it - I got it at http://animewallpapers.com/wallpapers Check it out!


HOWEVER I will not hesitate to give thanks and credit the wonderful people who created them. And the communities who provided these lovely designs.

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Credit for images/icons/backgrounds/headers/blinkies/glitters/layouts and other beautiful creations goes to the following:

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Memories:14 entries
Pictures:over 50 public
Interests:86: , amateur portrait photography, angelina jolie, anger management, anime, antique auctions, arrogance, auron_, baiting others, being painfully honest, bettie page, black orchids, blinkies, board games, boots, card games, chamomile, christina ricci, cool layouts, coquette, cruxshadows, dali, dancing, dark red, decadence, dragons, drama as spectator sport, drama-free living, drama-free zone, elite, ellen parties, ethnic food, europe, extreme living, extreme sports, fantasy, fine dining, french food, gamer girls, hair, hedonism, him, jacuzzi, johnny depp, kevin smith, kitty cats, layouts, leather and lace, literature, luxury, maintaining one's composure, massages, money, music, mysticism, pate, photography, poetry, poker, power, prescience, pyschology, quizzes, razor sharp wit, reading, red, roses, sensuality, sexy clothing, shakespeare, singing, sleep, social psychology, spas, sushi, swords, tattoos, tea, thought provoking discussion, tiffanys, usual suspects, victory, winning, word games, work life balance, writing
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